Now that I’m single again, I’m looking at all of my male acquaintances with the critical eye of someone trying to gauge relationship potential. And I find myself realizing that each one will be different and unique in its own right, and might not necessarily be what I’m looking for, but that it will a relationship never the less. It’s almost as though I’m browsing through my closet in the morning, I know I have to wear something to cover my bottom, but I’m not entirely sure whether I want to wear pants, a skirt, shorts or capris. Each one is great in its own right although not necessarily equal. And I can wear all of them to the office without any ramifications.
I can have a fun relationship, I can have a fling, I can have a relationship with great chemistry, or one that’s comfortable with an old friend – just as I can wear pants or capris or a skirt or even shorts. I’m not sure entirely which one I want, but I know that I better be wearing something when I show up for work.